Okay let's go from the top. The first thing to know about taking charge is to give someone what they want, but make it so that you're the one giving it to them. For instance, if your girl likes restraints, make her stand still while you tie her up. Or if she likes PIV, tell her that she's the one who's going to lube you up before anything happens.
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Okay let's go from the top. The first thing to know about taking charge is to give someone what they want, but make it so that you're the one giving it to them. For instance, if your girl likes restraints, make her stand still while you tie her up. Or if she likes PIV, tell her that she's the one who's going to lube you up before anything happens.