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[greenily]

hi

[ Okay so how does he put this... ]

so you
you're pretty experienced, right?
i mean with like. sex stuff.

[brushoff]

I'm a 150 year old hedonist who's spent around 130 of those years engaged in as much debauchery as I can get my hands on.

[ wait, that's not an answer ]

Yes, I'm pretty experienced with sex stuff.

[greenily]

okay! okay that's good. that's great, actually.

i'm a seventeen year old who had sex for the first time when i got here four months ago, and i have no idea what i'm doing

and the thing is my girlfriend is actually pretty kinky, it turns out, and right now she thinks i'm cute but i really don't want that to turn into boring

can you help me?

[brushoff]

[ And now Dorian gets why Daphne has this 'if anybody hurts him, I will hurt you just as much in retaliation' feeling around Gar. ]

Of course I can.

So, what do you want? Do you want to discover your own kinks, do you want to learn how to work well with hers, or do you want suggestions that the two of you might like?

[greenily]

well, she kind of told me what she likes

she likes to be dominated, and i think she likes it kind of rough? and i don't really know how to take charge like that

and she'd teach me, i know she would, but if she has to teach me then she's still in charge and that's not what i'm going for, you know?

[brushoff]

Right.

Okay let's go from the top. The first thing to know about taking charge is to give someone what they want, but make it so that you're the one giving it to them. For instance, if your girl likes restraints, make her stand still while you tie her up. Or if she likes PIV, tell her that she's the one who's going to lube you up before anything happens.

[greenily]

okay

i think i get that. what's piv, though?

i'm sorry if that's a dumb question