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[riseunparalleled]

[Xie Lian sighs, too.] That's very kind of you to say. I've never been very good at that. I can fail a thousand times without stopping, but it's different when it can hurt someone else.

[brushoff]

Then stop worrying so much. You're your own worst enemy here, Xie Lian. Besides, every couple has their spats. What matters is how you manage them.

[riseunparalleled]

Do they? [Well, he trusts Dorian's experience, if not in his own ability not to be his worst enemy.] Though I don't think I'd call that part a spat...

[brushoff]

That is absolutely a spat, [ he points out. ] Unless, I don't know, you actually do break his arm or something. But you're far too cautious for that.

[riseunparalleled]

Isn't that a type of argument? [He spreads a hand, but not quite in disagreement.] I'm cautious for a reason.

[brushoff]

And I still say you should be less so. That's why we have these conversations in the first place: because you're so cautious and so wrapped up in your own head that you never make the big impulsive decisions that every relationship needs.

[riseunparalleled]

[Xie Lian counts these conversations as pretty big and impulsive, especially on his personal scale.] Perhaps. I can't say making big... moves in relationships has ended well for me before.

[brushoff]

Then you're overdue it actually ending well, [ Dorian points out, with a little shrug. ] That's another thing. If you worry and fret that this will end up poorly then guess what: it will end up poorly.

[riseunparalleled]

I'm pretty sure it doesn't work that way. [That you can be overdue for something ending well; he doesn't disagree with how to make sure things end up poorly. He smiles at Dorian.] Thank you for your advice, both your words and your time are deeply appreciated.

[brushoff]

I've always got time for you, [ Dorian says with a smile and a small nod. ] Hell, next time my room will be back and we can have some tea.

[riseunparalleled]

That will be nice. It's good to have food, but I have missed tea. [A cup of tea might be the last step needed to feel properly settled again. He gives a more serious, if still gentle, look.] I hope you know the same is true of me. I might lack useful advice, in most regards, but I can always offer what I have.

[brushoff]

Oh hush, [ Dorian grins. ] You're more useful than you realize.

[riseunparalleled]

With age can come experience of what you can't do... [Thoughtful, but also a little teasing when he says 'age'.]

[brushoff]

And with youth comes the ability to realize when those old fucks are stuck in their ways. [ because Dorian is well aware he's younger than Xie Lian. ]

[riseunparalleled]

Such disrespectful to your elders. Always a sign of good sense.

[brushoff]

What can I say, I'm a bit of a brat.

[riseunparalleled]

As long as you don't grow out of that too much, you'll be fine.

[brushoff]

Fortunately, I'm not the sort of man who's good at 'changing'.

[riseunparalleled]

Now, you shouldn't say something like that until your third century.

[brushoff]

Alas, I'm jaded already.

[riseunparalleled]

[That manages to get Xie Lian to actually look slightly skeptical.]

You’re many things, Dorian, but I would have to go down quite a ways before picking jaded.

[brushoff]

Really? I've gotten that a lot back home.

[riseunparalleled]

From who?

[brushoff]

Literally everybody?

[ says the immortal in a world full of people who aren't immortal. ]

I suppose it's easy to become jaded when you see the same shit happening over and over again.

[riseunparalleled]

It can be sad to witness such patterns repeat themselves [he doesn't think anyone would disagree with that, including plenty of non-immortals].

But you have far too kind a heart for me to say 'jaded' instead of simply, unfortunately, well acquainted with tragedy.